To the 180 odd great people who replied:here is the reply. The confusion centred round the church I think. This was not a party I simply invited a colleague for a meal It was turned into something else by the colleague who asked if she could bring another who was a longstanding friend of hers. Both have lived here much longer than me. I was suspicious. I managed to get the truth out of the univited who claimed I had been told all about her and upon hearing this I had invited her: lies I was only given her name and about a day's notice . I had nothing in common with the uninvited. I tested it out: she never did much in her free time and later admiited "i take everything I get" I tested further: she went from hotel worker to Mortgage advisor and tried to sell me a mortgoge Once she even asked me to bring my friends round to her house so she could meet them!! The Church comes in as I was supposed to be doing work for this girl even though neither she nor I were relligious !! I was actually very busy: I was working ftime as a teacher and had various interests but the uninvited girl did not share these . She was after meeting me I was not after meeting her. I do not like rude people especially not in my home : I tested more and found out she after even more Attempted theft I would say: the univited girl is not badly off as being a dull girl she works all the time .