Just been reading a thread about breakups etc and I thought it might be nice to post nice things about our dp's/dh's. So
1 What did you get for Valentines
2 List some of the things your dh/dp does that makes your life easier
I'll start with mine
1 Two red roses and a book of poems (marked at one he thought most appropriate)
2
Has always done his share of nights with ds
Does all the shopping/cooking plans for the week and about 80% of the cooking
Knows ds's routine as well as I do and loves looking after him
never complains about lack of sleep (unlike me )
Is incredibly supportive about my weight obsession and manages to convey that he finds me sexier now I am losing weight without having ever found me unsexy (not sure how he does it but he does)
Has started doing little bits of DIY round the house for childproofing without me nagging (despite being a really non-practical academic sort)
Is always kind and supportive and non judgemental of whatever I want to do (SAHM vs WOTH etc)
Tells me that he thinks I'm a great mum all the time (despite me having had bad pnd and asking him to take ds away in the early days and to never bring him back )
Looking at this I'm not sure he'd have the same positive list from me - must try harder !!