Spending my entire time moaning about dp!

[notasheep]

I sometimes wonder why i am actually with him as all i do is moan,moan,moan.Am i just a grumpy moaning minny? Or are alot of us alike.

Each day i think it would be easier being a single mum.But i would prob moan about him then too!!

Its the normal man stuff that i just cant be bothered with anymore.

Lazy,Untidy,Selfish,Insecure,Thoughtless,Stinks,Down the pub right now and so on and so on

Madmaz-I phoned Relate this morning,and planning to go alone.
I have already tried to make major changes to rescue relationship.I sold MY HOUSE! We lived in a fantastic place in middle of nowhere,great place for bringing up kids.But not when dp is always at neighbours or down the pub.I was so isolated so took drastic measures.
We are now closer to town (in temporary rented) and at least i can do school run on foot rather than 16 mile drive.
I do at least get weekends away to stay with girlfriends.I just feel that i dont have any life with dp and to be honest not sure if i want any anyway.

Sheep I feel for you, I know it is really really hard to take the final step. I presume you mean "go alone" to relate? It will help you make the right decision either way. Enjoy your weekend it sounds like you really deserve it.

Yes,to Relate alone(not telling dp) then at least i will clear my head and have a neutral territory to speak in.
And his MAYDAY PARTY is already on the calendar(29th April!!!!!!!!)

And tonight i have just ripped up a photograph of the two of us and put it in bin

sorry I'm off line at home at the mo.... hence sneaky login at work. things no better than sheep? Didn't relate help? Did you not get a "girls weekend"?

Its our Anniversary today-7 years together,he gave me a card(with his own very thoughtful words) freesias(which are my fave) and a CD

I didnt give him a thing.

havent got a date for Relate yet,the weekends away were in October and NOvember!