Dear Natalie & Rihanna....Exactly why would you think a man who could do that to you is worth taking back?

[StilettoJam]

I've been where you are.

With hindsight these men do not love.

Ok, people will still be there for you if they do it again, and they probably will. I do not understand how you can ever put your full trust and give yourself to this person who clearly didn't care in the first place. And... its a poor example to ordinary women out there.

I have been there too.... But they need to work through it themselves. I went back a few times til I had my lightbulb moment, I imagine they are the same?

A poor example?