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Brazilian - What did it do for you?

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newnametodayc1 · 25/01/2006 18:54

Have changed name for obvious reasons
DH has for a while been nagging me to have a brazilian. He thinks it will improve our sex life; he says I will enjoy it more.
Has anyone done it and found that it helped?

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doormat · 25/01/2006 19:09

try it and if u dont like it grow it back

alexsmum · 25/01/2006 19:10

what's stopping him going down there anyway? a few hairs? oh tell him to get a grip!

Lonelymum · 25/01/2006 19:10

Never had this problem TBH. Why can't he go down there without you shaving? I think this is more for him than for you - your enjoyment won't be affected, I would have thought...

doormat · 25/01/2006 19:10

dont us girls get the stubble, they dont think about us do they

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alexsmum · 25/01/2006 19:10

if he knows where to go then hairs shouldn't make a difference.

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QE2 · 25/01/2006 19:16

Shave just the very underneath off and leave the front intact. Must say dh prefers this as he finds it less ittitating fighting his way through a full hedge!

doormat · 25/01/2006 19:17

agree leave a tuft

alexsmum · 25/01/2006 19:20

can you imagine if we said to them ' we want you to wax all your pubic hair off 'cos it'll make sex better for you'
as if????

lou33 · 25/01/2006 19:22

some do

i dont have a man and i still whip it off, and i am not planning on attracting paedophiles

aside from that i dont normally wander about naked from the waist down for men to see the goods in advance anyway

doormat · 25/01/2006 19:23

alexmum i have pleaded with dh and sadly it has fell on deaf and dumb ears

lou33 · 25/01/2006 19:29

my x trimmed his back

alexsmum · 25/01/2006 19:38

but trimming your back is like shaving your legs.its not having the hair in your most delicate place torn out by the roots!

lou33 · 25/01/2006 19:40

i used to wax his back

i dont wax i shave anyway

doormat · 25/01/2006 19:40

thats why u use veet or a razor

QE2 · 25/01/2006 19:48

dh shaves his btw.

newnametodayc1 · 26/01/2006 18:42

Thanks for all your advice

I had a chat with DH. He says that his main motivation is for my enjoyment but would admittedly enjoy it himself. He's not asking for me to go entirely bare but remove enough for free access.

He says he would shave himself if I would give him oral but I'm not ever going down that route.

The question stands does shaving it off help? Is it worth the pain?

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RTKangaMummy · 26/01/2006 18:46

get him to have a crack and sack done

alexsmum · 26/01/2006 18:47

you wouldn't ever give your husband a bj???????

why not?
sorry if that's too personal a question!!

VestibularProwess · 26/01/2006 18:47

So glad you asked newnametodayc1. My attempt at Brazilification ended in agonising itching during re-growth which was most unpleasant and continued for quite some weeks.

It might be worth informing your ambitious dh that unsightly raised zits and pustules appeared around the hair roots of my re-growth. It was not sexy at all I can assure you.

VestibularProwess · 26/01/2006 18:49

It has to be considered too that cutting down on the breadth of the pubic hair in this area can result in the illusion of thigh fattening. This may not worry you but for many of us it's a most undesirable bi-product of lady gardening.

Spagblog · 26/01/2006 18:51

Dh did his own bits and it was hideous. I hated the feel of it. I couldn't wait for the hair to grow back. It felt indecent!!!

newnametodayc1 · 26/01/2006 18:53

alexsmum: I just can't do it. One of those things. If he wants to do me that's fine but I won't reciprocate.

VestibularProwess: thanks

Maybe I should trim a bit a see what happens.

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