Has anyone introduced porn into a a marriage and regretted it?

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Dh and I both looked at soft porn before we met and stopped once we got together.

Not been something on the agenda before but we are thinking of occasionally looking together at the soft or instructional stuff as an extra thing (not because we are having problems or anything just more for variety)

We both worry it could just open can of worms though rather than adding.

Has anyone else decided use it together and was it a good or bad move?

I did and yes i regretted it as it became something he did regularly and openly to the point of extreme . After a while soft porn became boring and over a period of years he became pretty extreme .

Many studys state that there are issues with it being addictive , that users can become desensitized , that it reduces women to sex objects , and of course , how can you be sure that the woman you are watching is doing it out of her own free will .

Most men of course arent extreme , and theres plenty of erotic stuff out there that is not exploitive , its just not something i would do having had the experience i have had .

Thanks diggs.

Neither of has or ever wants hardcore stuff tbh. we heard about porn made by women or lovers guides so consider that route but still have reservations so not sure.

We have been married for 3 years and have stated to occasionally look at porn sometimes separately (tho we tell eachother about it), sometimes together, and we bought some amateur DVD's too. We watched them a few times when we got them, but havent used them much since. I think it just helped us to discuss what we liked and what turned us on and helped us improve on our dirty talk. So it doesnt have to escalate into something bad. I would much rather be open about it and do it with my hubby that have him watch it alone.