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Badnight thread 2

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badnightlastnight · 15/09/2011 14:07

Also. Am going to definitely do my uni course. am starting teacher training Monday. I feel quite empowered today. It was good to feel like I did something about it. Whether it goes to court or not doesn't matter.

The policewoman is lovely. I have someone from a rape charity coming to see me for a chat tomorrow to see how I am too.

Days are ok, I have to function for my DD. Nights on my own are the worst. I hope to make progress and keep busy. But as I said before. Its a huge cycle of emotions.

Thank you x

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beatenbyayellowteacup · 17/09/2011 19:18

Re the first day in placement school - not too big a deal. Might be worth contacting the school first to tell them and ask if they would like you to pop in another time before you start?

AnotherMumOnHere · 19/09/2011 21:01

How are things with you now OP?

happyscouse · 22/09/2011 16:54

You have gone very quiet OP. I really hope this was a genuine thread because so many people reached out to you with their own experiences and that must have been painful for them. Well I hope you are OK.

TheOriginalFAB · 22/09/2011 18:53

happyscouse that is out of order. If you have any misgivings about the truthfulness of this thread, contact MNHQ.

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badnightlastnight · 22/09/2011 18:56

Hi. This was real. So I won't bother going into that one anymore.

Tbh I've been busy at uni which is why I've been quiet. It's come at exactly the right time for me. Been a massive distraction & it's been great doing something with my brain and for myself after a couple of years floundering.

The police are waiting on forensics and to speak to witness's before sending the case to the CPS to decide what to do.

My solicitor has been great about the up and coming court case - she's going to ask for the date to be moved or if not ask if I don't have to go.

It's my DD's first birthday tomorrow. I'm hoping to start fresh (well as fresh as I can with a court case coming up). I'm bloody determined to finish my course and become a teacher and provide a nice life for my DD. Im also hoping for a bit of luck so these bad things stop happening to me.

I cannot thank everyone enough for the support I have received. As I said last week I don't know where I'd have been at points without MN, I really don't.

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badnightlastnight · 22/09/2011 18:57

Cross posted with you - thanks FAB x

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TheOriginalFAB · 22/09/2011 19:05

No worries. I hope your life is blessed from now on.

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LuzLuz · 24/09/2011 12:55

Just a quick message to say hi and hope that things are calming down a little. I wondered if the Uni you are doing your PGCE at (if it is a Uni) has a free counselling service? Mine was great. Good luck with course. x

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