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OMG - we actually had sex last night!!!

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HRHQoQ · 01/12/2005 10:10

OK - most of you probably think I'm bonkers - but others will know I've had vaginismus for about 5yrs now (how DS2 came along is a bl**dy miracle really as 2 nights after conceving him was unable to do it again, and after he was born still wasn't able to).

Just hoping this wasn't another 'blip' only for it to be impossible next time - last time we managed it was when DS2 (who was 2 last Sunday) was concieved.

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misdee · 01/12/2005 10:11

thanks for sharing

but well done you!

no idea on vaginismus or what it is tho.

LilacBump · 01/12/2005 10:12

i hope you enjoyed it

HRHQoQ · 01/12/2005 10:14

vaginismus

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LoveMyGirls · 01/12/2005 11:59

well done you, really feel for though i would not be able to cope with that at all.

kama · 01/12/2005 12:26

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overdrafttopayforchristmas · 01/12/2005 12:52

well done.Never heard of it before and just read about it.Blimy that must of been hell and now such a relief. CONGRATULATIONS bet that was the best shag ever

doormat · 01/12/2005 12:56

well done, hope it is not a blip for you

MistleToo · 01/12/2005 12:57

tmi

morningpaper · 01/12/2005 13:00

I'm just jealous that you've done the deed with two children in the house!

(How AM I ever going have a sex life again?)

Congrats! Happy for you.

Easy · 01/12/2005 13:01

I guess you need to work out what was different last night, that didn't trigger your vaginismus.

MistleToo · 01/12/2005 13:03

.... but congrats

(my last post 'sounded' a bit short - soz!)

carlychristmas · 01/12/2005 13:06

well done you i suffered with this throughout my late teens after a horrible experience it got the point where i couldnt even go for a smear but these days i am much better and have 2ds to show (currently ttc for number 3!)

SantaClausFrau · 01/12/2005 13:08

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TreeFuses · 01/12/2005 13:10

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HRHQoQ · 01/12/2005 13:15

lol thanks - thought I'd leave out the nitty gritty details as that would have been TMI

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THOMCATsForLifeNotJustForXmas · 01/12/2005 13:24

Oh honey, that's wonderful, I'm so, so pleased for you.
Now don't get hung up on the fact that this might have been a one off. You've done it, you cvan do it again.
Oh I'm so pleased, bless you

Blu · 01/12/2005 13:35

Surely not TMI at all....think of all the other people you would be helping...advising...I think in the spirit of MN you should tell all, Q

Frizbethebumpedupreindeer · 01/12/2005 13:36

Yeayyyyyyyyy

HRHQoQ · 01/12/2005 13:37

PMSL you must be kidding

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Easy · 01/12/2005 13:38

oh go on ............

Caligyulea · 01/12/2005 13:43

Oh god i knew i shouldn't have clicked on this thread

HRHQoQ · 01/12/2005 13:53

well................

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ENIDeepMidwinter · 01/12/2005 14:12

bloody hell that sounds horrible

much worse than having dd2 on permanent shag alert

any movement towards each other in the bedroom results in the patter of tiny feet along the corridor 'mummmmmmmmmy I am cold/hungry/thirsty/had a bad dream"

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