Another thread on this topic prompted me to ask something always been curious about. I usually have a standard bikini wax with a strip but have to shave everywhere below that. I hate shaving/regrowth/stubble rash. So considering going for the whole lot off.
BUT ... if you have had babies, dont know about some of you oh well heck it's Mumsnet anything goes all them flaps are a little deflated these days, a little torn in places, a little missing in places (two big babies 
), no perineum to speak of (where did it go? inside somewhere I think), plus I had a second degree tear no stitches and what I suspect is a small prolapse but too scared to ask Doc about that.
ANYWAY when they wax between all these flaps are you supposed to hold them taut yourself or does the beautician do it? Not that I'm sure I could taut them, a little plasticine-y yee-haa! man they can stretch for miles TMI? Sorry! I digress. HOW though do they get all that hair from right inside the crevices??
This isn't the sort of thing you can discuss with yoru sisters or friends really, is it!