Who's had them? Who wants to have them? Who'd never have them?
Who has stuck with their partner despite knowing, deep down, they are sexually incompatible and that it will never get better.
Is it always 'right' to stay regardless for 'the sake of the children'? Or, is it better to wait until the children are grown-up and you can follow your heart? Or should you tough it out as a martyr, safe in the knowledge that you will be patted on the back by all the other Mumsnetters who secretly fantasise about Colin Firth while doing it with Richard Madeley (Insert name as appropriate).