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husband wants to watch me touch myself

42 replies

nattnoobies · 06/11/2010 21:10

ive been married for 3 years and hes never asked anything like this before. he likes to be on top facing a mirror (so he can see himself Confused) is this normal i feel embarressed to touch myself infront of him with him watching

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ItsGraceAgain · 07/11/2010 15:19

Hmmm! I can't do it with someone watching, except in a "let me show you" sort of way. It's okay if I start, then get him to take over (hint). I don't have a problem with mirrors, though. If the angle happens to show nothing but wobbly tummy put me off, I shut my eyes!

AnyFucker · 07/11/2010 20:37

I wonder why the OP never came back...

Ormirian · 07/11/2010 20:40

Yes, I think it's quite 'normal'.

nattnoobies · 08/11/2010 19:12

anyfucker i did come back after the first few responces if you re-read the posts

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AnyFucker · 08/11/2010 19:52

you gave this thread all of 50 minutes then ? Wink

dementedma · 08/11/2010 21:49

I'm very uncomfortable with it too actually - feels voyeuristic. but then i have problems with a lot of aspects of sex, so what do I know?

TrinityTheTwattyRhino · 08/11/2010 22:57

erm dee, its not voeuristic if both [arties are there and want to do it

why wouldn't the man that you love and loves you want to see you taking pleasure?

TrinityTheTwattyRhino · 08/11/2010 22:57

*parties (I blane the drink) Wink

nattnoobies · 10/11/2010 10:03

anyfucker im so sorry for having a life and not sitting at my pc for hours waiting for posts!

i wanted to thank the people who responded so quickly then i had to go to work!

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nattnoobies · 10/11/2010 10:04

anyfucker that last post sounds mean im not i forgot to put the smileys in Confused

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AnyFucker · 10/11/2010 16:35

hi natt

just seen your post

my comment was tongue in cheek...hence the Wink

and what are you doing going out to work ? Don't you realise there are people awaiting your response (especially to a sex thread)? Grin You should call in sick and MN properly ...

Sarsaparilllla · 10/11/2010 17:07

I think this is totally, completely, normal, do it, you might like it Wink

AnyFucker · 10/11/2010 17:20

well, I do Grin

nattnoobies · 11/11/2010 19:36

anyfucker i didnt mean that kind of work if you know what i mean Wink

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AnyFucker · 12/11/2010 07:15

ah Grin

0Lucylabia · 12/11/2010 19:04

Ahem,
When my dp is horny, and I'm not, he'll sometimes lie on the floor, with me standing above hi head - with good eye contact, so that I open and expose my fanjio entirely, this visual aspect turns him on, and he knows me so well that this in turn, turns me on, and often ends in me riding his dick..... naught, but very nice!

EricNorthmansMistress · 12/11/2010 19:11

Shock not much shocks me but blimey Lucy! Did you namechange just to post that? Wink

OP do you have a camera phone? Try sending him a pic as a first step. Less on the spot and he'll love it Wink

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