dp talking to women on sexcontact site

[hippymummy]

This is the first time I have ever started a thread. I discovered yesterday that my partner has been chatting to and mailing local women on a sex contact site since 25th oct. I waited till kids were in bed and confronted him about it. I at least expected an apology but instead he said he was just passing time and had done nothing wrong. He acted as if I was in the wrong. I asked him to sleep downstairs but he didn't. I checked the site this morning and he has stopped his membership at the end of this month but he had also asked a woman for a pic and a video chat! I just feel totally gutted. What should I do; he just isn't taking me seriously.

thanks AnyFawker. I don't know if the wee ones will be exposed to it, i guess I am overly concerned because i feel he is a stranger and it is difficult to trust how he will be with them. the overnight access starts next week so i will just need to see how it goes and hope for the best. i'll be demented but just hope the kids are ok.
thanks x

You may want to post your own thread, as this was tagged onto a thread that was posted twice, so I think people are ignoring this one in favour of the other one IYSWIM.

You will get more answers I think, if you do that.

I understand why you feel as you do. But honestly, unless this man is an absolute monster, a paedophile and sexual abuser, I think you have no worries about their exposure to sex stuff (unless you have other indications to think so)

Don't let your understanadable concerns about overnight access put mistaken, disturbing images in your head.

I am not defending him btw, he has been an absolute twat and not a good guy to you or your dc by his selfish actions.

But it doesn't make him a monster if he is otherwise a sensible father who knows he has to protect his kids x

keep posting, you will get support on here x