Erm, may I ask what happened to the Young01/Stanley1 threads?

[BrittanyBeers]

So what was all that about?
Did it kick off?
I posted a linky, fed the children, and it's all gone.

Am I being crassly insensitive by asking?
Where they the same people/he the same bloke?

Thanks ever so.

Young01 was from a friend of stanley01. Young01/stanley01's friend fessed up in another thread and that has gone too.

My gut feeling is that it was a case of embarrassment that they disappeared.

what was the subject? the names ring a bell

Stanley was Affairs and I was also watching this one.

I dont understand why have they gone again I didnt know the Young01 post.

Am I right in sayin you can ask MN to take them off?

not that quick they dont!!!

theres loads of affairs. which one, the one who had just had a baby and dp was seeing a dancer?

oh no it was the one whos partner of 10 yrs in his 50's had left her for a bit of skirt at work - she was 27.

He umm and ahh for weeks who to choose then finally went for the skirt.

I felt for the OP she was so very hurt

Oh, poor Stan.

Kittya, Stan's "D"P had left her for a young lady.
Young01 came on posing as the young lady. (I saw start of apologetic thread, but didn't know if she had been sussed on her thread.)

I did post a link to Stan's thread, because I thought she could see, if she were genuine, how devastating it was for the usurped party, amongst other things. (The details were the same.)

I know this a thread-about-a-thread. Sorry. I was concerned someone was maybe taking the mickey out of Stan, or a-trolling.

How sad.
I think Stan was getting some genuine comfort from her thread.

That's absolutely disgusting what Young 01 has done - bang out of order, she should be banned from MN

Stanely01 if youre out there still sending you hugs

I never noticed Young 01's posting. Poor Stan what a shame she felt she had to pull it, I remember it well now.

No! i didn't cotton on to young01. omg she was the OW?? doh. i suddenly thought we'd all been trolled...but stan was genuine, yes?

I didn't read it that she was the OW. I thought she was a friend of Stanley. Her post was odd though so maybe I'm just being thick!

Shame the first thread has gone. I could really identify with her and found some really helpful posts - especially from BaggyAggy.

Hello.

Usually, when threads disappear suddenly like that, it's safe to assume it was for one of the following reasons:

a) It was deleted at the OP's request for pressing personal reasons - although we generally ask the OP to post to say she's asked for the thread to be deleted first

b) It was full of libellous posts or personal attacks

c) We had reason to believe the OP was of the dwelling-under-the-bridge variety

HTH

Has it occured to you that both were made up.

Have you noticed, if you go visit the bereaved mummies thread or a miscarriage thread, you don't get some of the high-drama action that you get in relationships. Ever wonder why?

because there are different emotions involved?

when did young 01 post?

I think it's more likely you're being trolled.

eh ?

I saw Stanley's thread and took time to post loads, even while having a funny feeling she wasn't being entirely herself IYSWIM

I didn't see any others referring to it though (not been around for a few days). So what did this Young person say then ?

And are we to assume the Stanley thread was a wind-up ? (grits teeth at thinking those are a few minutes I will never get back...)

Another person came on saying she was stan and had posted for a friend hence that she was young.

I dunno reckon the whole thing is fucked up.

< still clueless >

never mind, I shall erase it from my tiny mind

I would AnyFucker i'm totally lost, mind due it's not hard with me

Me too. I thought it was completely true. Why would anyone make it up? I never saw any young posting. It mustve been during the day.

It was this morning.. young posted then it was deleted, someone else posted on behalf of young or something, i posted a biscuit and it was gone when i came back on.

that was quick! I think stan was genuine.

I don't know other poster after young had gone said she was stan and posted on behalf of a friend which was why she posted under a false name i.e young.

Confusing or what?

wasn't she the one saying 'I obviously have more to offer him because I am younger'?

as if a 25 year old would come on here, she wouldnt even know what it was.