my sister is seeing someone who is constantly putting her down and she has very little confidece but when i think i look stunning i ask him and he picks at me too, but he hates me to be with her because i try to get her strong and tell her how beautiful she is i feel he wants to put a ridge between us because i could take her away from him my other sister is very family orientated and complitent to her other half and he wants her to be closer to that sister i think he's scared i'll notice his game and get her away.
although why would he say mean things to me too this is what i dont understand is he just a stupid man or really smart so id stick up for him!