I really just wanted to say a big thank you to all on MN for inadvertently helping me so much.
As I've come to terms with a breakdown of a long term relationship, reading through all the posts here on MN has given me a number of 'light-bulb' moments... the 'O my god, why on earth did I put up with him for so long' and why on earth did I want him back...well no more. The strength and advice of the women on here is amazing.
It's also made me realise that my 'problem' was tiny compared to all the issues that some women here are facing. 3 months on I'm much stronger and ready to face a life of new possibilities.
So keep up the good work ladies you're fantastic.
big hugs xxx