Hi Jenniepanda
Thanks for the info. It's good to hear from someone who has lived there.
I understand how hard it must be for your parents to have lived a village for a long time to suddenly have hundreds of new houses thrust upon them. However, we are in a small village at the moment, and hate it. It is a very close community, and we are desperate to escape back to new build anonimoty.
Takeley seemes a good option to us as its still got a rural feel, but is close to Bishops Stortford and easy to get into London. The airport is also good for us as DH works abroad in the week, so it would be great for him to fly back and not face a three hour drive home!
From the position we are in now in (very) rural Suffolk, driving a few miles to Bishops Stortford for everything would be sheer bliss! I have to drive a 3 hour roundtrip to Norwich and back four times a week at the moment for ds' swimming, kerate and drama lessons and even have to drive 10 miles to the nearest shop, so a few miles to Bishops Stortford would seem nothing to me!
Ds would not be attending school at primary level, however, the school is being moved across the road from the house we are hoping to buy, so it would be very handy if we ever decided to go down the school route!
I am so sorry your parents have lost the feel of a village they loved, don't think I am being blase about it. It just seemed to be the kind of place that would suit us after a few years of living in a tiny, close community which have been horrendous (we are the source of local gossip as apart from daring to buy a house in their village I am, in thier words 'one of them colourds' )
Are there any other reasons you would not move back, apart from the things you put in your post? Any more info would be great, we need to move from here but I don't want to jump out the frying pan into the fire.