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Need to rant. Condescending vendor

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Dandelion24 · 05/10/2025 19:31

I was in the process of buying a property and close to exchange. My solicitor was waiting on a few remaining replies.

I knew the house had some damp issues but, having viewed it in summer when it was freshly painted, it seemed fine. The vendor claimed he had a tenant with kids who had lived there for years without problems, so I wasn’t too worried.

When I revisited on Friday, the downstairs walls were visibly wet, and I decided to pull out — the damp was worse than expected. I was ready for a bit of cosmetic work, loft insulation and chimney removal but not that level of damp.

Yes it’s frustrating to be in this process but I was kind and apologetic in my email pulling out.

The vendor later emailed back saying he regrets trying to “help me buy the house with my limited budget “
Bear in mind this property is in cotteridge Birmingham and I offered 200k.

Throughout this process he has tried to ridicule me referring to me as a charity case, repeatedly telling me he is doing me a favour. I have been taking the condescending remarks because I liked the property, but I am SO glad I withdrew.

I now see why buyers and sellers shouldn’t deal directly.

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Mycatissohandsome · 05/10/2025 19:33

My first house was in Cotteridge.

Why are you dealing with him direct?

Dandelion24 · 05/10/2025 19:38

Mycatissohandsome · 05/10/2025 19:33

My first house was in Cotteridge.

Why are you dealing with him direct?

Not direct per se.
There is an estate agent involved. The vendor just had my email and we occasionally exchanged emails when it came to questions about the house.

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