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Moving from Beckenham to Bexleyheath? Not too sure

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raincitymum · 28/02/2021 11:19

Hello,
We moved to the UK 3 years ago and in that time we have moved 3 times, this last move needs to be our final move and we are wanting to buy. We moved to Beckenham a year ago from Clapham/Wandsworth as we just loved the feel of it, the schools (primary), diversity (important to us as we're not from the UK originally), ability to get to London quickly, and high streets were nice. People were friendly and found most families to be business professionals.

Now our son is in year 4, we need to plan for secondary school. Unfortunately I'm not finding any houses that will be big enough for 3 children and 2 dogs in Beckenham in our price range. I've found some in Bromley and Eden park but I am concerned about schools and I am not in love with Eden park, I find it a bit dreary.

So we're broadening the scope...we looked at Orpington and I thought it was a combination of Bromley and Beckenham put together. Schools look great, not too sure what the overall vibe from people is over there. Seemed ok, would like to know your thoughts. Obviously we will steer clear of St. Mary Cray.

Then Bexleyheath came up. We went yesterday and started looking at Danson Park which was absolutely stunning and we fell in love with it. It reminds us of our beloved Beckenham place park. I saw lots of families, and felt confident that this area could work. We went over towards the shopping center from there and never felt like it was really nice...not anything like Beckenham high street or even Bromley. It felt like a step below Bromley. What was even more disappointing was that we didn't see any families except many teen mums and dodgy guys. I am wondering if it's always like this or are there more business professional families there that we're not seeing because of lockdown. Is anyone familiar with these places? We have a few months to makeup our minds but I feel like we're determining our son's future with whatever we decide and want it to be a good one.

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FourOnTheHill · 01/03/2021 07:50

My kids play in Danson park often. I’d be interested to know if people still experience racist behaviour in this part of S London as I’ve never seen any. I’m white but have often been there with my mixed race (African-English) niece and nephew. It’s not a particularly diverse area but there are usually some families of Indian heritage and there seems to be a Sikh community.

We are looking at the 11+ currently and it’s very stressful but hopefully will be worth it. It’s a dreadful unfair system but the grammar schools are very good.

raincitymum · 01/03/2021 21:14

We actually went and looked at sevenoaks the other day. We would need to be near a train station as we don't currently have licences yet here and family is always visiting and need to be self sufficient in their commutes into London. I haven't seen any homes in Beckenham that would work for us yet. There's extremely low inventory right now. 😔

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