Hi guys. We moved to our first property this month, we knew it was a doer upper... but we massively misjudged the impact it would have on our family. The stress of living in a house we can't 'get comfortable' in because it's quite frankly ( mostly cosmetic) hideous and the list of jobs is completely endless... even just small ones... and then we get no family time and we bicker because we have small children to care for and one of us then can't do said jobs because we are stuck caring for them. You get the idea.
I reckon we need 20k. The plan was to wait, save a bit, do a bit and repeat. I'm not sure this is a good idea anymore.
Can we ask to borrow and add onto our mortgage? We've been in a month so we've no equity etc at the mo and I'm a bit clueless being Ftb. Any advice gratefully received!