Thanks all, I appreciate the help! I've found a reputable independent damp surveyor locally (not attached to any company) - unfortunately they can't fit us in for a month. Since it's probably been here for some time, and it's summer we're hoping another month won't make too much difference. Should I try and find someone sooner, or hold out for someone who seems good and has been recommended?
cheese Interesting that the render and paint might be an issue, that hadn't occurred to me. It's not Victorian though, it's a 1930s ex-council house. Also hadn't thought about the drive being an issue - tearing part up wouldn't be the end of the world as we were hoping to redo it all at some point! The guttering is okay, we noticed some overflow when it rained last year so had a guy with a cherry picker out last year to sort it all and no problems since.
fudge You may be right, we are in Yorkshire so do get our fair share of rain! I can't think of anything we've done unless it is a pipe or something (my feeling is it's more likely to be a problem with the hous though).
PigletJohn in the cupboard it's concrete, in the sitting room it's wood - we had the carpet up just after we moved in and floorboards were sound then. Haven't lifted it up as I'm worried about mould spores (I'm asthmatic and have a baby in the house) but might see if DP will tonight. There are three air bricks at the front - at the side there is a garage which is at floor level and the back is level with the garden. I think there might be a couple under the conservatory too, will check when I don't have a dozing baby on me! No water meter as they couldn't install one, we're on flat rate because of it. Not sure about our neighbours. Yes the boiler has a pressure gage, the pressure does drop sometimes when the weather is cold, but we've not had any issues for a good couple of months now.
Regarding the house, we've had a LOT of issues as the former owner was apparently in the building trade and did a lot of bodge jobs, we've had gas leaks, bathroom leaks, all sorts. My favourite discovery to date was live electrical wires hidden behind a picture! It wouldn't surprise me at all if he'd done something stupid with the air bricks or similar! Would love to get my hands on that man.
Thank you so much all for your thoughts, I feel better and a bit more in control now we have some ideas of what could be responsible. Though ultimately we won't know for sure until the surveyor comes I guess! I may ask DP to pull up carpet tonight as I'm a bit worried about the floorboards.