So, could do with some advice and experiences.
DH and I have toyed with the idea of moving out of London closer to family for a while, but we seem to go round in circles about where to go which results in heads back in the sand and doing nothing. We have one DC in year 2, and another due to start reception in 2017. So I figure if we are going to do it, timing it for DC2s school application makes sense.
We are currently in lovely part of SE London in a 3 bed flat. We are short on space and no chance of upsizing to a more sizeable house in this area due to crazy surge in prices.
Also it's a pain in the bum to visit friends and family outside of London from where we are (hours stuck in traffic on south circular is the norm).
DH will need to commute to central London. Areas that we would like to be able to reach easily for family and friends are Glocestershire, West Country, Birmingham and we have good friends in Bucks and Herts.
We both LOVE Bath and I would move there in a second if the commute wasn't such an issue for DH. Whilst he can probably work from home 1 day a week, it would currently be around 2 hours each way to commute which I worry would become wearing very quickly.
Another place we have consisted is Thame but when we briefly visited, although it is very lovely, the size of it freaked us both out (I guess we are SO used to city life). Also wasn't clear if there is anywhere for meals out in the evening etc.
So I'm just looking for any more suggestions or recommendations, taking into account school needs, commute, family and area. Top top budget is £650k and would prefer 4 beds if possible.
Hoping for a MN brainwave here!