It's a long one, sorry.
My mum inherited her parents' house around 24 years ago. She's mortgage free and rents out the house (which is in her home town) to provide some income. So far, so straight forward.
The house is around a four hour drive from where she lives (and nowhere near where either of her DDs live either). She doesn't drive and has had ME for around 26 years (she got it a couple of years before her mum died), so getting down to actually see the house is a mission. Iirc she's been there about 8 times since her DM died.
Her tenant is ummm... eccentric. She's nailed dozens of pictures of herself doing her hobby to the walls, only lives in 3/4 rooms and only tells DM about problems when it's a big one. She keeps the place absolutely filthy, though her dad keeps the garden nice which is something. I think she has some MH problems (on DLA) and DM doesn't want to evict her (she's been living there almost 20y) because it would be unchristian.
The problem is DM hasn't been properly maintaining the house. It needs properly looking after but her tenant is unwilling/unable to do it or report faults, and she can't inspect it herself.
The problem at the moment is terrible mould in the bedroom. DM suspects the roof has gone, which is going to be a big expense. She has investments but with no other of income they have to last her for the rest of her days. She's single and lives alone.
I've tried tough talking, making suggestions but she's a ditherer. I think this might be the last straw though. Wwyd? Any idea how she can pay for the repairs? Should she cut her losses and all, but what about the tenant? She's doing no-one any favours becoming a slum lord but she just can't seem to grasp the nettle here.
Any advice gratefully received!