Any thoughts appreciated. My ex (we were unmarried, no children) is still living in our jointly owned house. He has been paying the mortgage since then, but does not pay me anything. I left in 2009 but have only now got the chance to sort out the shared house situation. I realise there will be some CGT to pay. He says he cannot afford to buy me out at the moment but does not intend to give me half of the value anyway just the deposit I put in. He was abusive and I am not sure I am strong enough to deal with this and cannot think straight about where to start! I guess I need to get it valued first? I do not live locally to him. Any ideas/experiences would be great thanks!