Hi all - the survey has shown up loads of expensive work and we need to drop our offer to reflect that. We cannot afford to pay the current price we have offered and complete all the work.
My question is- how do we go about it and any tips on how to be successful?! 
Do we go straight to the Estate agent or do we need to inform our solicitor as well? This is my first purchase so I'm just not sure what I'm doing! I don't want to get on the phone and sound nervous and unsure of myself. We need to reduce offer by 10k.
TIA