Righto, I'll try to answer some of these Q's.....
Bottled gas central heating.
electric dehumidifiers, emptied daily, usually with a litre? or so water.
3 people in one bedroom, which does create a lot of hot air admittedly!
We always shower with a window open and its always left a bit open.
We did have a roof leak, but the whole roof was replaced.
We also noticed the temperature rose and fell dramatically so we had the underneath boxed in so at least the heat doesnt escape so badly through the floor. We have a plug in electric heater that we leave on minimum, continually from now til summer(haha)! which has a thermostat.
we are very exposed and south facing so in summer its too hot to be in and winter we get all the weather thrown at us. Not a lot we can do about that.
I do think we MUST have a leak through a joint where the two part were joined together, because that seems to be where the worst of the damp is, and it is the least exposed side of the mob.
Because some folk live in these permanently I figured it can't be such a bad thing I just wondered where I was going wrong.
It doesn't help having had solid rain for 10 days so the air is wet and outside is like a bog. Oh well!
Thanks everyone for the responses tho! I'll ventilate and dehumidify!