Been with my dh almost 13 years we have two kids one baby, one at school.
I ran into my ex of fifteen years ago while out shopping, made small talk as you do, Had a flustered moment because he looked really well and I got a bit hot under the collar. It was a fleeting moment. I'm perfectly happy in my marriage, I love dh very much. He knew I had ran into ex because I mentioned once I was home.
Happened to discuss this "moment" with a friend on the phone and dh over heard. He's now all moody and hurt.
I have no idea what to say to him. It was genuinely nice to see ex, we ended amicably but have nothing to do with each other at all. Just because I had A reaction to the fact that He's still quite nice looking, doesn't mean I have feelings. I react if the bin man is good looking and dh doesn't normally feel all threatened. Is he just being silly? Or aibu to h ave had a phwoar moment?