ok, moved abroad sept 2010, let house to friend and son. She just covers mortgage/bills so great deal for her and easier for me, stuff left there etc. She knew it wouldn't be forever and I said one year probable.
Now I have decided to stay put here and I want/need to let house properly which would net me almost double what she is currently paying. So, do I tell her now, right before xmas but over phone/net or tell her face to face when I am there around new year (not staying) it is her house afterall!
I just know she will be so gutted but she does know it's coming at some point.