Ok. Was very impressed with Benchmarx. Our local store is Harlow and they were super-friendly and professional. Had a brochure given to me and allowed to look around the showroom which is tiny but there's enough to see, although the ranges we like are not there (so go to Wickes to see them!).
They had no hesitation in booking a home visit for me, even though I have not confirmed I would use them and they did not need to speak to our builder (unlike Howdens). So they are coming next Thursday and before then I was advised to choose the kitchen I would like and all the appliances, flashy bits and pieces (magic corner!), worktops etc. Have a stack of brochures to pore over now.
Interestingly, the Wickes quote came through tonight and in Heritage it is £9,200 with granite and £6,500 without!!! I was warned by the Wickes lady that their granite was expensive and we might want to buy it elsewhere - and we have a small kitchen, not a great massive one. For Tiverton it is £8,500 with granite and £5,800 without. This includes sink, Brita tap, hob, double oven, extractor and fridge/freezer. And without installation.
Although this is at the sale price which ends Thursday, we are not going to go for it because we need more time to consider what we really want and there are so many little things which need consideration (for spending so much money!). Also I think Benchmarx will be competitive and I got a good vibe from them (plus my 4 yr old said he liked it better..what more can you say?!)
Obviously this is early stages and I have no idea how this will all go, but our builder is calling back tomorrow and hopefully he will say he's happy to use them (he has an account with them so that's promising).
Up to you what you do with Wickes, our lady said there will be another sale in October/November, so you could hold out for that or try Benchmarx, if there's one near you.
The one thing I've learned so far is that you have to really do your homework. I'm going to choose all our appliances and price them up before next week, so we know what to expect. The Benchmarx quote goes to your fitter so he provides a price based on their figures, you don't get a quote directly from them as far as I can tell.
Will let you know how we get on next Thursday, I'm off to look at many, many picture of gas hobs...