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Would state school holidays put you off a private primary?

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Keyboardpacifist · 09/09/2026 17:49

Would a private primary school that follows the state holidays put you off or make it more attractive to you?

School day from registration to end of last lesson is 8.30 - 3.30

Is it too much?

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Labraradabrador · 09/09/2026 20:17

Wouldn’t make any difference to me, and I imagine pretty far down the list of priorities for most. I imagine some would prefer to be the same as state (families with children in both sectors) and those who like the difference (being able to go on holiday outside of term time), but cannot see that making a difference in school selection other than at the margins.

Bunnycat101 · 09/09/2026 22:14

It would actually be a positive for me- I’ve got one in prep and one in state and the prep holidays would be an absolute pain in the arse to manage for my younger one. Childcare can be patchy during the additional time off. It would be lovely if you weren’t working but I don’t really see it as a positive. Now I suspect when they’re older and we can benefit from the cheaper holidays without needing to need childcare.

Weisel · 10/09/2026 01:13

I've got quite used to the longer holidays now so yes it would put me off. I like having more opportunities to go on holiday, and more weeks for them to do activity camps and days out. Childcare isn't an issue for us.
Before the dcs started I would have been neutral about it. I don't know any families in our prep who have another child in state, it's not a common thing here.

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 10/09/2026 01:54

Yes - the only financial benefit left after shelling out for fees is the ability to go away on holiday when it’s quieter. I like the long days but long holidays.

Twilightstarbright · 10/09/2026 04:06

Not if it was a good school. Private school holidays are sometimes a nightmare to get a holiday club for.

However a lot of staff like the private school holiday perk so it could impact recruitment?

Aaloyisha · 10/09/2026 09:24

I’d prefer state holidays. We’ve just had 9.5 weeks off which was far too much.

Lou2026 · 10/09/2026 11:34

It would put me off, definitely wouldnt entertain it.

Friends have their daughters at a local prep, house are essentially 9-3pm so mum cant plan much during the day, after school clubs are extra paid things and private school holidays.
The prep we used was 8-6pm, mandatory after school clubs and could stay a bit later if needed. This worked far better around work and general life and child absolutely thrived.

But all different.

Keyboardpacifist · 10/09/2026 20:29

Interesting range of perspectives, thank you. My gut says that private school holidays are what they are because of academic intensity and the slightly longer days and so longer breaks are necessary. This school is independent but non selective throughout (it's just primary), so I wonder whether it has a bit of an identity crisis. It's also possible I'm reading too much into it...

We'd be unlikely to send one to state and one to private. Holiday length impacting organising time off work are problems for me, not for my child, so I'm less worried about that!

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Hoork · 10/09/2026 20:33

Put me off.

maureenponderosa · 10/09/2026 21:47

It would 100% put me off. Mine have just gone back to their wonderful prep after a blissful 8.5 weeks off and we’ve loved it. My husband and I both work so we’ve juggled AL, family holiday, sport clubs, grandparents and friends/play dates. Yes, logistically, it isn’t easy, but for well-being and joy, it’s incredible.
I used to be a primary school teacher (pre-children) and 6 weeks wasn’t long enough.

Also, we really like being able to go abroad/to Center Parcs when it’s quieter.

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