My dd is 5 and starts year 1 tomorrow. Our extended family have arranged for a weeks holiday to coincicide with my brother 50th birthday. This holiday was to include my dd'd nanny who has a heart condition. Unfortunately, this is during term time. Back in May I spoke to head who was positive about it. So I duly booked the break. Towards the end of term I filled out the required holiday request form and it was declined. This was because new rules have been agreed between all the schools in the area ad the EWO. I wrote a letter explaining the situation and I was told that my reasons do not constitite special circumstances. Since than my 83 year old mum has been told she will need open heart surgery. This makes the break even more important. Do u think its worth appealing again or should I just take holiday and accept penalty notice letter?