Are your children’s vaccines up to date?

Set a reminder

Please or to access all these features

Primary education

Join our Primary Education forum to discuss starting school and helping your child get the most out of it.

Son is really struggling

26 replies

Glitterballofdreams · 19/09/2025 13:56

My son started reception class of primary school two weeks ago, and he hates it.

He cries at bedtime, wakes throughout the night upset and cries his way through the school gates. School say he is up and down throughout the day, but does get upset quite a lot.

Does anyone have any advice? We have kept a strict sleep schedule to give him as much rest as possible as the school day is so long and tiring at age 4.
Ive made him little soft heart shapes to keep in his trouser pockets so when he feels nervous or sad he can stroke them in his pockets. We tried drawing a heart on each others hands. Nothing seems to help, he is sad because he misses me and I am not in school with him.

It’s so upsetting, any advice is greatly appreciated

OP posts:
Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
Doorbellsandknockers · 22/09/2025 17:26

It takes time for some kids. Its worth finding out if there's anything he's particularly upset about at school or if he just misses you. For example is he making friends and is there anything he doesn't like. My dc was upset about school after the hols it turned out to be a very specific thing and once resolved he was ok.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page