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9 year old hates English!

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imjusthereforthelols276 · 08/01/2021 10:18

Any advice? My 9 year old son hates it. He's great at spelling, a fab reader and has extensive vocabulary but getting him to write a bloody sentence is like pulling teeth and he ends up crying!

It's so frustrating, I know he's more than capable and I have to really bite my tongue.

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StillGoingToWork · 08/01/2021 10:24

Talk to your son's teacher, get some tips. Maybe set up a phone or video call between them. My daughter loses interest quite often when homeschooling, but after a pep talk she usually gets motivated. She hates maths and science but is quite good at both.

QuantumJump · 08/01/2021 10:26

It sounds like he's doing really well for his age, so I wouldn't push too hard during homeschooling. Him ending up crying won't help him develop a love for the subject! Make sure he keeps reading a lot, the writing will come in time.

TriSeaSwim2021 · 08/01/2021 10:32

I feel your pain my 9yr dd is similar, yesterday she tantrum on off for 2hrs over writing a paragraph for a story 🙄yet ask her to write a list of instructions for doing something she can whizz it off in no time. It’s just how her brain is wired - a story is subjective (in her mind she worries about how to get it ‘right’) yet a list or description of instructions is (in her mind) more black & white clearer to do. Are there other writing tasks he can do more easily and build from there? What does he like doing or interested in? Could he write a letter to a toy or a description of how to buy some sweets or describe the weather from his window?

TriSeaSwim2021 · 08/01/2021 10:34

Forgot to say she did chose to write the story in the end sitting in the garden on a frosty swing in thick winter coat using a clip board. I find she hates sitting at a table...

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