reluctantbrit Thu 17-May-18 22:11:54
I think delaying can be good but it doesn’t necessarily mean these children are superstars suddenly. And this is something parents with summer born ones need to remember.
Given DuchyDuke's followup, I prefer to assume, until proven otherwise, that he/she was supporting the statement above with an anecdote that some summer borns will do just fine starting reception at 4. And, personally, I suspect that is more likely to be true for the ones with more supportive and involved parents. I further suspect that those parents, who are considering trying to defer reception until 5, i.e., not taking the default option, are likely to be more supportive and involved than average.
So I find it plausible that DuchyDuke might have been suggesting that, if you're the kind of parent who is considering deferring reception for a year, your child may not be the one who would benefit much from that option.
Obviously I'm putting a ridiculous number of words into DuchyDuke's mouth. But I'm not starting from the assumption that he/she intends to offend.