My dd is 5 and the last two weeks has come home from school stating she's been in the wrong group. I've mentioned it to the school twice and they assured me it was sorted last week. This week the same happend. Dd not happy she's not in the group she chose so I mentioned my annoyance about this to the school. She came home last week saying she hadn't had dinner after a full morning of looking into it she did just didn't eat any as she didn't like it. They have told me not to believe everything my 5 year old says as she lies. And I'm to stop being so annoyed and asking about my home life. Would I be unreasonable to kick off that's she's not been in the right afterschool group for 2 weeks and that they have a don't care attitude to it. Do they have a right to ask about my home life when it's them that's causing the issues I'm complaining about. And can they refuse to give my daughter a place in any further afterschool groups?