ds started reception jan 07, and he thinks hes behind with reading

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keep saying that hes not reading ok which we think he is and told him so but gets upset saying he can not read good ! he wants to learn but says his class friends are better, how do i convice him thats its ok you learn at your own pace

mine started reception at just over 4 - he is now 5.5 and is only just now getting the hang of reading - and is still sounding out quite a few of the words.

Tell him he really shouldn't worry - it takes time to learn new things (eg riding a bike or learning to swim - has he done that yet ?). But also say if he really wants to learn then you will help him practice at home - but only as long as he wants to and is enjoying it.

yes thats what we keep telling him, and i wont push him! hes learning to swim he can ride a bike but i think this is imporant to him

That is crazy. He hasnt even been at school for a term. Have you talked to his teacher. Maybe your son is comparing himself to september starters.