This is a really useful thread! At the moment I buy far too many clothes for nearly 4yo DD (I stock up in sales in advance, and buy bnwt bargains on ebay, so they are not massively expensive, but every season there are definitely unworn/not much worn clothes left over.) I know buy too much, but tbh I put loads of weight on after having DD and compensate by buying her lots of clothes now I can't buy nice ones for myself :( (plus they're a lot cheaper than adult clothes....)
I've already got some things stashed for up to 5-6yrs. It honestly had not occurred to me (duh) that they need far fewer things once they are in uniform most of the time. I guess I was still working on the assumption that they go through as many clothes as before (and DD is a super-messy child so can go through a fair few outfits in a day, especially at nursery when doing anything creative....) She has tons of "nursery clothes" (handmedowns, cheap supermarket basics) and a variety of other non-nursery stuff as well....
Plus my family often buy her things, especially party dresses, which adds even more...Honestly, when I was a small child (late 70s/early 80s) I only remember having a few clothes, and maybe one "best" dress a year. When DD was 18-24months I remember I counted one day and she had 10 "best" party dresses. 10! They were a mixture of lots of family gifts, handmedowns, and one or two I'd bought in the Gap sale, but still, that is ridiculous for a toddler
Of course, clothes have become much cheaper now than in the 70s (globalisation, deflation etc.), but the excess of it all rather appalled me. And I hardly ever put DD in a nice dress because she was such a messy (BLW) baby....
So I'm glad to know that they need far fewer clothes once they're at school! Plus extremely relieved for my wallet
Though, what do people do about choosing them? Do you just have one default shop you normally go to and get a mix and match capsule wardrobe at the start of the season? Or do you scan all what's on offer in different stores and buy stuff as you see something you like? Currently I tend to know what items are best in different shops and go to H&M for leggings, M&S for pants, JL for dresses, Boots for tights and so on, but once they need fewer clothes that would be a bit hit and miss and time-consuming. Wondering if people normally have a preferred shop and then just hit eg. Next or H&M twice a year and get everything to match?