- Are you sure she is meant to be able to do it?
- Can she do this without the borrowing/exchanging?
I use money. Physical money.
Give her 9 £1 coins and 6 1ps
Say you need 3x£1, 8x10p, 7x1p
She needs to give you the 1ps first.
She hasn't got 7 so would need to 'go to the bank' to change a 10p, but hasn't any of them.
So go to the bank and change a £1 into 10ps
Now go to the bank and change a 10p into 10 1ps
So now she has 8x£1, 9x10p, 16x1p
She gives you 7x1p, 8x10p, 3x £1
What does she have left?
Work with coins first, laid out in columns
Then coins with you showing how it is written
Then written backing up with coins
Then no coins but only talking about them.
But if she can't do this with no exchanging followed by just going to the next door number, don't do the double exchanging question.
Worked for both my DDs, both of whom struggle with maths but are ace at column addition and subtraction.