I've just found out the Headteacher has refused permission for my 11yo DD (Year 6) to have the day off to come to my MSc graduation ceremony. My 14yo DD will be there (she is home educated) with my husband and my Dad. Obviously we want DD2 to be there too. I know in theory we could be fined, but is it likely to happen in practice? Her attendance level is 97%. Anybody else had a day's unauthorised absence and what happened?