please help - I am so devastated that I did not watch my daughter brush the teeth and a big problem now. she says that the 6th tooth is hurting...I visited to children's dentist - she said that she could try to save some decayed teeth, if not - they will be out. the next appointment in 3 weeks' time and even then she will just do brushing of teeth. What shall I do? Go private before it is too late?