My DS and I were witness to a sixteen year old being verbally abusive and very aggressive to an adult. ( He used prob all the swear words possible, threatened to break the mans neck and tried to attack him) The sixteen year old has now been hired as a football coach for my sons school (after school club, supervised with a teacher). I feel that my ds should not take part in the club but in doing so I have been told it means that he will not get the opportunity to play football for the school team which has disappointed my ds. Do I ignore my principles and let him play, or tell him its a no go?