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DS having tantrums after school - how can I help him?

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notjustamummythankyou · 19/09/2013 20:00

Evening all. My DS started school this year and he's doing really well. He's settled in quickly, is lucky enough to have good friends in his class he knows already, and seems to be making new friends easily.

I expected him to be tired after school, but never anticipated how exhausted he would be. He goes to a childminder after school 3 days a week and I pick him up after work at about 4.15pm. He's going from being hyperactive (always a sign off impending exhaustion) to total melt down in minutes. I try to fend it off with snacks and drinks and to keep him going, but he's finding it so hard.

Tiredness is one thing, but this week DS has started to scream and shout over the littlest of things, and has lashed out - something he has never done before. I am finding it quite difficult remaining patient and understanding, especially with a younger DD who is also settling in to a new childcare setting!

DS only turned 4 in August, so is one of the very youngest. He's always been one for getting tired quickly and, in fact, only fully dropped his naps at the beginning of the summer. Has anyone been in the same situation, and how did you cope with it? Any tips? Thanks!

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Sparklingbrook · 22/09/2013 09:46

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notjustamummythankyou · 22/09/2013 10:35

Just seen it on site stuff, sparkling. Thanks!

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mummy1973 · 22/09/2013 21:06

So familiar...my two were just like this. Snacks, time on own and early tea and bed. Still do this some days and they are 6 and 9. Think I am better at sensing the tiredness and head it off at the pass now! 6 yr old often asleep by 6.30. I also try not to do play dates after school as these seem to completely wipe them out and end in tears.

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