I was recently visiting friends with a 9 year old DC in a top London prep school (not the very top but a very good one) and when the question of what is 27 - 14 came up, she started looking for her calculator. When I told her to tell me without using the calculator, she started guessing ("12? 10?"). I was so shocked. Why did she even have a calculator? Am I expected to pay £15k per year for five years and by the end of it my children can't even do simple maths exercises in their head?
It didn't even occur to me to ask detailed questions on how they teach and do maths during school visits, but now I want to know from every school at what age they introduce the calculator. Are there any preps that insist on pure mental maths, no calculators? Maybe Hill House? Please tell me there is at least one!