We applied for Middle school for DS. DD went to our catchment one and had a miserable time. She had her arm in plaster after one incident then a teacher left class records out which were read by other children. They contained medical information and a week or two later there was an incident on the playground with a group of boys who surrounded her and were taunting her with things like she didn't deserve to live plus her medical info. Horrible time for all of us.
When it came to applying last year we decided to put the other middle school as first choice. Rang Admissions, explained the above and said that we wanted to not put catchment first due to what had happened and that DS had become very anxious about going to our catchment school due to what he'd witnessed his sister going through, but was happy at the idea of the other school (closest other Middle school) as knew children from cubs, that we considered catchment school had failed in safeguarding and duty or care to our DD. I wasn't sure whether I should tick the 'other' or 'proximity' box. Lady I spoke to asked me if we could get him to further away school. I said we could, she told me to apply under 'other' and explain what I had said in the box on the form.
Logged on Tuesday, he hasn't been offered first choice but catchment school. The confirmation letter came yesterday and I noticed that the heading for 'confirmed criteria' for the first choice school says 'proximity' which is not what I applied under. The Head of catchment school is leaving and it will probably turn out to be a good thing if he does go to catchment school. But I'm wondering why the details on offer letter don't match my application and the criteria I was told to apply under . Does anyone have any thoughts on this ? Many thanks.