dd''s homework included the question how much would 2 apples cost if one is 14p? She said 18p so I broke it down.
First I asked her what is 10p + 4p and she said 14p.
then I asked her what is 14p + 4p she said 18p
then I asked her 18p plus 10p and she said 28p
then i said what is 10p + 10p + 4p + 4p and again she said 28p
So what is 14p + 14p. 18p 
I tried it from a number of different angles. I gave her 28 felt tips and told hertocount out 14 and then another 14 and tell me how many there were all together and she said 28 yet when I said so what is 14+14 she said... 18.
Why what am i doing wrong? She does this with any simple sum that adds up to more than 20.
(she's 7 and in year 2)