What do you do with your dc when they get home from school?

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Feeling a bit guilty because i don't do much with my dc age 5 and 7. After walking home from school (which can take an hour if they are having a play/bumped into a friend), I am usually doing tea, packed lunches, dc2s reading book, bath etc until bedtime when dh and i read them both a story.

DD (4yo) comes home on the school bus and isn't back home until 4:15pm. She gets a snack (something like parma ham/ salami and cucumber and tomatoes or fruit) and we have a natter when she gets in, then we read her book and do any other work that she's brought home (and I read any letters that she's brought home) and then she either plays in her play room or outside in the garden for a little while. We have dinner about 5:30pm, then it's bath (with her 12mth old DB) and bed at about 7pm with a story. She usually reads until about 7:30pm, but falls asleep soon after. On Tuesdays I pick her up as she does gymnastics and on Fridays we usually meet friends at our local farm park.

No packed lunches to make as she has school dinners.

I make mine do housework.

My ds is 7 and his after school varies, but most Mondays we meet various friends and their children for a play which is usually finished by 4:30 or5. Then home quick tea for him and some homework then pop to the library every other week after tea for a quick half hour then bath and stories in bed.
Usually on Tuesday we have a school friend round for tea and then walk them home after, then bath and bed/stories.
Two nights a week he has an activity after school and he is met by a grandparent and they do whatever suits either home for tea or out for tea before handing him over to his dad. One day a week he has an afterschool club and I pick him up from work at around 5:30 then home tea, bath and bed.
I make his packed lunch after he goes to bed when I do my own lunch.
He has a couple of activities at the weekend and a day when we tend to wear pyjamas all day and doss around with a bit of a walk in the afternoon to somewhere when we get cabin fever.