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Mufti Day = PITA

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RaisinBoys · 30/03/2012 09:29

or is it just me?

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Scholes34 · 30/03/2012 09:32

Every day is mufti day for us at primary school!

redskyatnight · 30/03/2012 09:36

Why? Find that DS gets very excited about it and gets dressed more quickly without being nagged

Blu · 30/03/2012 18:11

Suits us - no uniform any day.

What was the problem?

jeee · 30/03/2012 18:16

Mufti = no problem.

Dressing up day = major PITA

ShatnersBassoon · 30/03/2012 18:18

Non-uniform is not a problem at all. It's easier than uniform as the kids are excited about doing something different and get dressed quicker.

kilmuir · 30/03/2012 18:20

Uniform ok
Mufti ok
Dressing up/character day Hate them

BeerTricksPott3r · 30/03/2012 18:21

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Beanbagz · 30/03/2012 18:21

Mufti - no problem with them

Themed dressing up days - PITA

NoraHelmer · 30/03/2012 18:22

Agree with kilmuir :).

Blu · 30/03/2012 19:37

Oh, yes, any form of dressing up - nightmare.
Thank goodness for year 6 and the end of such stuff!

BackforGood · 31/03/2012 18:03

Like others said - non uniform = great... easy way for the school to fundraise, enjoyed by all the dc and no hassle for parents or staff.
Dressing up day = nightmare. Hate them, although accept it's a passage you have to go through when you have children in Infants.

anthonytrollopesrevenge · 31/03/2012 23:31

Does no one else have DCs that get extremely upset at mufti days? After much discussion, upset and tantrums, DS eventually wore his uniform to school on mufti days in ks1. He has grown put of it and is now delighted to go in as a cricketer.

BackforGood · 01/04/2012 00:09

No - why would they be upset ? Confused

startail · 01/04/2012 00:41

Just you, now I'm afraid.

Used to be vaguely stressful as totally fashion disinterested DD1 would have a slight panic over what to wear so as not to get teased. She didn't really fit either adult or kids clothes at 10 and hated jeans so it was always a bit of a scrat.

At 14 she has amassed a collection of leggings and long tops which are comfortable and fashionable enough to escape comment. If its warm she has a shortish denim skirt. (also she's an absolutely standard size 12, so shopping has ceaced being a nightmare).

DD2 just does fashion and people and all those confusing things. She's up and dressed on mufti days long before I've remembered it's non uniform.

Now dressing up with no warning, Grrrr. I'm fairly art and can sew, but I do need warning.

RaisinBoys · 01/04/2012 02:36

Yep, just me then!

It is not difficult or stressful. They are just clothes! Certainly not exciting - by 8 the novelty has worn off for DS.
Money goes to house charities so of course we support them

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Earthymama · 01/04/2012 03:07

It depends on the child.
DGS2 would freak out and worry so much about it, very sad and cod never ever see it as a treat.
He lived with (self-imposed) rules about how life should be and school = uniform as far as he was concerned.
He finally decided that a certain Tshirt was acceptable, and then that was the only thing he would wear!
He's growing out of this but I felt so sorry for him and poor DD, who had to do all the negotiating Grin
Can I add he is one of the nicest, kindest people I know with a heart of gold and a terrific sense of humour?
Hope your DC adapts too

AbigailS · 01/04/2012 22:33

I totally agree dressing up days are PITA, but teachers feel the same way too. We have to find costumes for ourselves. We don't do it to be awkward. We do it to make meaningful, exciting and memorable learning experiences for your children. My DD can still talk (at great length Wink ) about WWII and Greeks, as she had enactment days - she's not as hot on Romans and she spend just as long studying them, but no dressing up.

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