I'll be having an Op in a few days time. Not sure how long I'll be in bed. Could be anything between a month to a few months. My DS is in Year 1 with job sharing teachers, Mrs C and Mrs T. I asked for a meeting to be set up with Mrs T, firstly to explain that various people (parents of DS's classmates have kindly offered to help) will be collecting DS from school so would she like me provide a list of parents and the days they are collecting or a seperate note each day that the collecting person can hand in.
Secondly I wanted to know when the end of year reports are due. If they're due after i go to hospital, I'll won't have the opportunity to speak to her about any issues. Can she therefore go through any areas of concern that she may have so that we (my DS and I) can work on them whilst i'm bedridden during the summer break. I made it clear during the outset that i do not expect her to issue the report earlier than the rest of the class. Mrs C came in the room partway through the conversation whilst i was speaking to Mrs T and refused for us to discuss any issues regarding DS's progress until after the reports have been issued. I explained that i may not be able to due to my Op and i'm not sure if I'll be able to in September either. Mrs C will have none of it. She said it will set precedence and that she will refer the case to the head teacher. I was not happy with her attitude and said that i prefer to carry on my discussion with Mrs T, at which point she said, "would you like me to leave the room?". I said, "yes please", and she left. Before the meeting was terminated, Mrs T assured me that the report is very simple and straight forward to understand and that DS is doing fine and she has no concerns. I'm very unhappy with this response. Anyone got any advice on how i can get the teachers to discuss my DS's progress?