It seems to have fallen to me to teach them to DD (not sure why they aren't doing them in school but that's another issue!)
What's the best way to learn them, do you think? Me telling her and her reciting them, parrot-fashion (that's how we used to do it at school), writing them down, listening to times-tables songs...? Also, DD's maths tutor has suggested she repeat the pattern (3, 6, 9, 12) instead of the sum (once three is three, two threes are 6, three threes are 9). But I can't imagine that you get a quick recall of a particular multiplication unless you say the actual sum, can you?