First parents' consultation tomorrow (reception) - what do I need to know

[neveronasunday]

What should I ask? Are they any use?

I know that DS has difficulty concentrating and is a bit restless. What I really want to know is whether that is an issue or just average behaviour for a reception child.

What should I ask that doesn't make me look like a paranoid neurotic loon

Does DS seem happy in school?
Has he made friends and does he play well with the other children?
Is he behaving himself nicely and does he listen to the teacher?
Have noticed that he is a bit of a fidget and has a fairly short concentration span. Is this anything I need to worry about?
Is there anything that we should be doing to help him at home?

Thank you magicmummy, those are very helpful.

Guess it won't help to arrive with a printout from Mumsnet

Shall commit them to memory.