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I have a problem. I feel unpopular at school and have noticed more and more mums giving me dirty looks. Even people i have been friendly with are not interested any more. For a long while my dh said i was being paranoid but its now got to the point where my ds is being excluded from parties with excuses that are making me feel uncomfortable. I spent most of today crying after one of these situations. Whatever the rumours are they must be extreme because i am getting hate vibes and have been for some time now.I want to know what is being said but don't know where to turn to as i am very isolated and do not want to appear neurotic but cannot go on like this. help/advice please.

I'd pick the mum I trust the most/ was closest to and ask them out right...

sounds horrid, hope you sort out what it is soon..

As a child I hated the playground and as an adult I hate it more.

I remember only too well how bitchy and finickety little girls could be, it seems that women can't help but be nasty to each other. Poor you. I feel for you.

The more down and unhappy you appear to others, the more they are likley to try and avoid you.

Are you sure you can't remember saying/doing something that might have upset someone. Not saying you have, but is it possible.